New and Scary!

For those of you that don't know I love to dye my hair...I like changing it up, however that gets to be a problem after a little while If you don't do it healthily.  My problem:

Black(June 2013)  --> 3 processes later Blonde (August 2013)  ---->  Brown (October 2013)  ----> Black with red highlights (November 2013) =  Lift to Red hair and the cutting off of almost all my hair. (Today)

Unfortunately not the best picture 
Its really sad because I have been trying to grow my hair back out and now I am at an even further starting point than I was before.  So I am now fashioned with a short bob.  Agreed it is cute and everyone ( I mean everyone no exaggeration) wants my hair cut and color.  If only they knew how quick I would trade it all for my long hair back.  So girls if you're looking to dye your hair take it from me do it the right way.  I have been dying my hair for a long time and I am usually good at keeping my hair healthy however going from light to dark too quick is never good. 

So the hot oil treatments, the trying of different shampoos, and the odd remedies begin.  The process to long healthy hair will be a lengthy one and I am willing to do what it takes even if that includes using horse shampoo.  Ive heard it actually works rather well.

Any opinions?